The saddest part in your life is when you depend to much on someone but then it turn out to be different you imagine.I have learnt my lesson which is don't put too much hope on someone because i had no idea what will happen on future. So i have to learn to stand by my own feet no matter how difficult it will be. I have to face all the ups and down in my life in my own and not put on hope that there will be someone will be there for me to lend a hand for me. A big NO for that! No matter how important is people in your life , you have to put ALLAH as a first because He will be there for you whenever you seek him or not. We may not see HIM but if you put a faith on him. You will felt it in your heart , the real calm. SubhanaAllah! Never forget that Mom and Dad might can't help us but They will always pray for us always.Their loves are infinite to us. No matter how bad or worse their children, they are always there for us. What about spouse? you have to remember that Hawa is created for Nabi Adam as one of his strength to live. Somehow , there is reason behind every problem. We as His Weak creature have to follow the path that is destined for us without any complain. Find the strength deep inside you and then stand up on your own. And don't hope too much on someone because you might feel horrible if they  didn't manage to help us. All the best to all of us in life! May Allah always bless us no matter where we are.